Actually, I have another question. If i wanted to change my male into a female, would that pet have less breeding points?

Yes. 

ok...but if i was breeding that pet and then change male to female, would the breedings I used as a male affect the amount of breeding points as a female?

(not sure if i worded it right but i tried?)

Change Sex doesn't work on pets which have children with the exception being if a male had DNA sample donated to the Fertility Shrine, and then used Change Sex before a pet had a child with that DNA sample. If you already used Fertility Shrine on your female, Change Sex will not work even though no breeding points were technically used, and if used on male and the DNA sample is already used, it won't work.

If your pet had any magic food or other stat bonuses to its Strength it will carry over to total points. Breeding points are based on Strength of pet.

ahhh okay then. Thank you Nightswan!