if we could not have people see our latest messages to others  that would be more cool,and I would not have to be careful what I write to everyone

On someone's profile you can see their threads and posts. Or is that not a user thing o0. I'm not sure what you see anymore. 

You can also view your own threads this way.

Your posts: http://beastkeeper.com/user-post-list/10755

Your threads: http://beastkeeper.com/user-thread-list/10755

@Nightingale, I don't think that's what Loole means.

"if we could not have people see our latest messages to others"

Also, @Loole, what do you mean by "messages"? Do you mean private messages, or forum posts?

Gotcha! I use my phone often so I miss things on the itty bitty screen. Sorry, that's my bad. Good catch! :)

Perhaps it could be suggested that people could hide their posts to public users. As a Mod, I love this feature. Posts are public anyway, this just makes them easier to find. As a member I use this often to find a thread I know a user made, and I want to see if there updates, but I don't want to dig through all the threads. I don't use a users posts very often though.... However, I do understand where you are coming from. Do you happen to have a more specific instance where you do not like this feature.

As Imitatia said, users cannot see your private messages unless it was sent to them.