My breeding offer button for one of my dragons isn't lit, Why? 

And sometimes I can't breed my females even thosays my female can but when I click on a male, it says it's not possible, why?

My guess would be that the dragon's energy is at 0. Since they need one energy to breed, the button is greyed out when they have no energy left. 

I don't know, this is nothing I have ever encountered before. It would be great if you could give more detail there.. Which dragons did you try to breed, what did you click, did both have enough energy, etc. One thing I *could* imagine might be that if you want to breed a female with a public male, when you decide to use that dragon someone else might have just used up his last energy, so when you click him, he has no energy left and therefore can't breed with your female. This is pure speculation though, hard to say with no details. 

I wanted to breed s dragon like any other dragon, and my dragon had energy but the button is grey out.

Is he on quest? Exploring? Battling? In trades? If he is busy then he won't ba shown as available to breed. But like Timain said... More details do we can help you figure it out.  

Step by step list out your process. Show us what buttons and exact links to dragons. 

he was on nothing, but I got it fixed now, thanks

I want to breed my own pets. The breeding offer leads to create a lot. I don't want an outside breeding. I bred my pets before, why not now?

I'm sorry, what? I can only tell you that it is possible to breed your own pets with each other - you actually should have done one breeding during the tutorial.

please give specifics where you run into a problem and possibly we can help you.

I dont even see the breed button... where is it?